Do you ever wonder if you really have a soulmate or if they actually exist? Do you ever question if they do exist when you will ever meet them?
Do you feel that something in your life is holding you back from meeting your soulmate, but you don’t know what that thing is?
Your chances of finding your soulmate are based on what you believe and what kind of patterns you are doing in your life. What you think about who you are and what you keep telling yourself all work together to manifest your life.
Your thoughts change what you are feeling, and they change your relationships and the people that you connect with.
If you have ever sat back and thought it was very hard to meet someone that was mature and then the next thing you know, you are dating someone that is off the chart in immaturity, this could have happened because you do not allow yourself to be emotionally available to what you are seeking.
When you think about something for a long time, you begin to believe this, and it becomes your beliefs. Th thing about beliefs is that they change, and this can be many changes over time.
When you continuously meet up with people that are not emotionally available to you, it can be hard and frustrating. It can leave you feeling vulnerable and alone.
Not being able to find the right person can be hurtful and leave you heartbroken. Even if you have dated someone and had a hard breakup, it can cause you to feel that something is wrong with you or that you are unworthy of love.
Being frustrated at your love life can give you the boost that you need to try something new and different. It can help you to realize that you need to change something in your life and learn the lesson that the universe is trying to show you.
You have to learn to change your beliefs about what love is and what brings you happiness and then chances are, you will find love.
When you keep repeating the same patterns over and over again in your relationships, you are not doing anything to make things better. You will come to the point where you begin to believe that you do not deserve love and you will follow this with negative relationship stories.
Maybe you are looking for love or commitment in your life and maybe when you look around and your friends and family members are full of these things that you want, that you will learn to accept that you too can find love and happiness.
You can learn to see what your story is and change how it is going to be read. The first thing you need to do is take a pen and paper and write down what kind of fears and anxiety you feel when it comes to finding love.
You have to write down what you really believe and not someone else’s story. Maybe you feel that people are always ghosting you or that everyone you meet is looking just for a one-night stand or that they are not available to you.
What makes you feel this way? Now, write down what you want to believe. You are the writer of your own story. Do you want to attract people that are available to you emotionally? If so, write that down.
Having the mindset that you can only attract one kind of partner puts you in a situation where you are not able to commit to your love life or to relationships because you already believe they are doomed even before they start.
Writing your new beliefs down can help to change that. Say them a few times a day each day when you get up and throughout your day. Do this for a month.
Start changing what you believe in your mind. Once you begin to accept your new belief, you will see that your life will begin to reflect this new belief.
This can help you to begin attracting the right people and to find the love that you are really wanting. It will be then that you can really write your own happy, love story.